I was
gaining more and more confidence with my abilities to drive on the left side of
the road, but still found it difficult adjusting to getting into what I had
always known as the passenger side of the car to drive. Over and over again I would go to the left
side of the car to get in, only to realize there was no steering wheel or
pedals, so I would shut the door and laugh at myself as I went to the right
side to drive. When I would start the
engine, I would close my eyes and repeat to myself, “Stay left… stay left.”
One afternoon I parked on Main
Street just down from the café and headed in for a late lunch. Many times people offered to watch your car
to keep it safe from crime for a tip. A
really worn-down black gentleman approached me to offer this service like I had
been approached many times before, but I knew immediately he was different.
The old man wore tattered
clothing. His shoes had the toes cut out
of them to make them fit. He was tall
and very thin with the skin on his face hanging loosely from his bones. He appeared to be about seventy-five years of
age, but in reality he could have only been thirty or so, worn down from a hard
life. He stopped directly in front of
me, looked me straight in the eyes and introduced himself as James. He said he was traveling through town on his
way to Zimbabwe. To earn some money for
the trip he wanted to watch my car. I
knew it was not a line. I saw his pain
and his desire to get to Zimbabwe in his sorrowful eyes. He was a desperate man, not just a street
bum.
After hiring him to watch my car, I went into the café and ate my meal
while watching him sit on the grass four feet from the Toyota. A horrible feeling of guilt and sorrow
overcame me. When I finished my meal, I
asked my waiter to fix me an additional meal and a drink to go. I paid my tab, took and extra one hundred
rands and put it in the package of the boxed food. As I walked out of the restaurant and towards
James, he stood up. I felt his
emotion. He did not want to get too
excited about the possibility of eating the food I was carrying because it may
just be my leftovers. His eyes were
weary with hope.
As I got close to him, I extended my
hands holding out the box that contained his next meal, wondering when the poor
man had last eaten. He took it so
graciously it made my heart melt. He
didn’t rush to open it. Instead, he
began to talk to me while holding the warm meal, telling me he had gotten word
his son, who lived in Zimbabwe, was dying and he was trying to get home to be
with him. We talked for a couple of
minutes and then I had to leave before I busted out crying from an overwhelming
feeling of sadness.
As I drove away, I looked into the
rear view mirror to see him waving at me still holding his warm meal. Not far down the road I had to pull off
because I could not see the road for the tears.
I told myself then that if I ever got excess money I would help these
people. There were so many beautiful
people in Africa that had nothing but their pride, spirit, and the beautiful
smiles on their faces. South Africa is a
land where the majority of the citizens are struggling to survive and yet they
are the most beautiful people I have ever met in every sense of the word.
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